When I first saw Whit Stillman’s DAMSELS IN DISTRESS nearly eleven years ago, I was thrilled with his return to the movies after more than a decade away. His dialogue was as clever as ever, the quirks were dialed up to at least a hearty seven, and the film exuded a thoroughgoing sense of fun. But while I enjoyed the experience, I think I missed just about everything that was profound about Stillman’s effort.
Anselm famously taught “faith seeking understanding.” A corollary to that maxim might be “experience deepens understanding.” In the more than a decade since I had first (and last) seen the film, my life experiences around mental illness and depression have deepened. Struggling alongside loved ones, hearing about the experiences of others, and reading theologically oriented works on this subject, I found myself responding much more deeply to Stillman’s film than I had previously.
While the film tracks the comic efforts of these young women to influence cultural change at their fictional university, one key element of their pursuit is an effort to decrease the suicide rate on their campus. Further, Stillman highlights that each of these young women have some struggles of their own, none more so than Violet. What I find interesting is that many of Stillman’s typical concerns from his earlier work are on display here, but they take on a new significance in light of this particular theme in DAMSELS.
First and foremost, Stillman is devoted to social forms. DAMSELS makes this clear through its heroine’s devotion to proper dress and scent. Violet is devoted to a way of carrying herself in the world which stands beyond her or anyone’s personal preferences. In contrast, Doar Dorm is such an awful place because the young men that live there have not figured out how to live in a society while checking their own impulses. I think it notable the frequency with which the Bible shows up here as well. It is a reminder that there is an order to the world. Violet’s attempts to order campus social life are an implicit recognition of an order that transcends her own.
Second, DAMSELS shows an affinity for history and tradition. Violet criticizes contemporary social life for always seeking people cooler than we are. By the same token, her devotion to dance is rooted in the history of dance crazes, expressing this in response to a professor’s question about influences. Violet knows what is good and has a clear direction for her life because she appreciates the tried and true. She even loves cliches, which, ironically, is so un-cliched of her.
Finally, the film leans into the notion that artmaking, dance, and an appreciation of beauty are fundamental to the well-ordered life. Violet believes in her suicide prevention program amidst the mockery she receives for her “naïve” approach. But what her critics don’t see is that these things she participates in are things she does herself in order to stay sane, to stay encouraged. That she draws others into her habits actually spreads the joy. This is no clearer than when Violet, having separated from her roommates in order to clear her head, shares her discovery of the great smelling motel soap with those present at a diner. After allowing waitresses and customers to each smell the bar of soap, Violet says, “This scent and this soap . . . is what gives me hope!” Violet finds things she loves and throws herself into them. In so doing, she seeks to keep the dark clouds away. To borrow a line from Violet, her personal suicide prevention has been 10 out 10 successful, for herself first, but also for numerous others.
DAMSELS carries a great deal of wisdom relative to the struggles of life. Maintaining some measure of social order that extends beyond ourselves, being rooted in a tradition or way of being in the world, and embracing beautiful sensory experiences like dance and the smell of soap are not simple prescriptions or magic pills for eliminating depression or some other struggle. But these are exactly the kinds of things that draw someone outside themselves, which in turn creates barriers to life’s downs. That DAMSELS is able to do this while remaining both funny and joyful from beginning to end only increases my admiration for Stillman’s achievement here.